Amanda Linette Meder

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How I Released My Fears Of Spirits (And Their World)

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Updated 2021.12.08

When I was younger, my strategy in dealing with Spirits was to simply ignore them. 

No matter how hard I tried, though, the ‘ignoring the problem and hoping it goes away’ solution never lasted very long. 

The ‘problem’ of me seeing and hearing those in Spirit, kept coming back, and back and back. 

I kept running away and at the same time, I didn’t sleep a full night in 8 years. 

My fear of Spirits had gotten so out of control that it affected other parts of my life

  • I could hardly sleep, so it was getting more difficult for me to stay awake at work.

  • I couldn’t be alone, so it made it hard for me to get any much-needed peace and quiet time.

  • And I couldn’t talk to anyone about what I really wanted to talk about, because I was hiding what I was supposed to be ignoring (my gifts) - from everyone.

And one night, lying in bed awake at night with my blanket up to my nose, I decided it was time.

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I Decided There Had To Be Another Way

I decided that enough was enough. It was time to stop being afraid.

Being afraid of ghosts and living in fear of the unseen hadn’t worked for me in years.

In fact, ignoring and running away had only seemed to make the ‘problem’ of Spirits get worse.

The more I ignored, the more my abilities intensified. 

I knew that If there were going to be Spirits around me for the rest of my life, I’d rather make friends with them than continue to live in the fear of the unknown. 

After This, I Learned About What I Feared

The only way to release your fear is to walk through it . . . to try to find the truth on the other side. 

For me, refusing and running from understanding The Spirit World, had already caused so many problems in my life that one day, I decided, that perhaps trying to understand The Spirit World, would instead be the solution.

Making the effort to understand The Spirit World was the solution. 

As I started to learn and educate myself about The Spirit World, I began to see Spirits less as unpredictable energies, but more as individuals, just like me, who I could rationalize with and ‘get’.

When we learn about something, we have the opportunity to get to the bottom - and to the heart - of who or what something or someone really is.

I Applied What I Learned To The New Way Of Seeing

After I dove head first into learning about The Spirit World, I decided I needed to apply my new found principles and knowledge to the same previous situation that had scared me into never sleeping.

I decided that if I was going to embrace this new belief in Spirit (that Spirits can be friends), I needed to see how it worked, when applied to the previous scenarios that once made me scared. 

I started step-by-step and deep breath by deep breath and eventually, I confronted my first Spirit.  After that experience, I confronted another. And another, and another.

Pretty soon, I was on a roll, talking to more deceased people than I was living people. 

Then, I started actually enjoying the company of the deceased. Then soon, I started giving readings, and not long after that, I decided I needed to teach others the new way.

Now, here I am, helping to guide you on a journey into a relationship with The Spirit World that is safe, informational and helpful. 

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