Karmic Relationships
How To Deal With The Invisible Wounds
Updated 2022.07.14
A karmic relationship is a romantic bond that is formed with someone in your soul group, and it's a relationship designed to resolve past life lessons and pain.
Ultimately, the road of all karmic relationships is one of joy, even if it's just a momentary meeting where the energy aligns and then it breaks away in less than a couple of months.
Karmic relationships are the type of soulmate relationships that everyone has, and the one thing they all have in common is they ignite the heart in passion.
Karmic connections can be challenging and sometimes heartbreaking, but they usually lead to the light and a better way of life for all.
Signs you're in a karmic relationship can include
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Intense passion
Obsessiveness
A strong heart chakra attraction
Unexplainable feelings or draw
The impetus to change
Adopting each other's patterns
Emotional waves
Intense like and dislike, sometimes equally
These are just a few of the signs you may be in a karmic relationship, and typically, karmic relationships bring out shadow aspects of ourselves so they can be integrated.
Karmic relationships are ones that initiate incredible soul growth, right from the start.
If you are in a relationship with someone with patterns, this new link will typically reveal the mirror patterns within you.
Through these relationships, you can evolve and grow on a soul level, though there may be times when it's a bit sparkly - meaning you may clash, there may be smoke and fire, but these moments, even in nature, always catalyze new beginnings.
You may evolve together for a lifetime with a karmic partner.
You may only evolve together for just enough time for those patterns to illuminate before both parties separate to develop independently.
In both cases, karmic relationships act as a catalyst for the other's growth and maturation as a soul - so they are always good.
Dealing with is closing the invisible wounds
Karmic relationships may open emotional wounds, and these wounds need time to be soothed.
A karmic relationship has done its job when one or the other person steps out of the cycle and grows spiritually, or when one or the other person releases outside energy affecting their field, so both can grow.
When one of the karmic relationship partners steps away from the bond physically or energetically, this initiates the first step of forming a new pattern.
Once here, the relationship can continue in a new pattern or take a new form.
Three steps to integrate the lessons and grow, with and from a karmic relationship wound are:
3 steps to grow from a karmic relationship
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Take care of yourself… alone
To thoroughly improve a karmic pattern relationship, you'll then have to take time to separate and look within.
This fully captures and processes the lessons the relationship has taught you so you can move on in the next tie more consciously.
If you share your same energy with others before you have fully cleared the pattern elements of the previous karmic patterns can present in the new relationship.
To resolve a karmic relationship, and it's wounded, whether it continues or not, taking care of your baseline physical needs first, food, shelter clothing, can reset your soul state for a new beginning.
This is why when a person sets out to make friends or romantic bonds, after a long period of mistreatment or unbalance, some of those early new bonds mirror this old pattern.
Jumping into many new relationships too soon after the closing of a karmic bond will indeed reopen aspects of the pattern cycle held with the previous partner.
All you have to do is recognize it and walk away from anyone restarting the old habit with you.
Close off and refresh energetic bonds
Your relationship with this person is likely rooted in thousands of years of soul history. Meaning, with karmic relationships, there is an energetic bond that links you, in addition to a physical one.
Moving away, ignoring texts, and refusing to open your front door doesn't usually fully work with karmic partners.
To fully close the bond and become grateful for a karmic relationship, you'll likely also need to do some energy work to release yourself into a new bond fully.
Cut your cords and call all your energy back, and this will help reverse the effect the bond has had on you.
You may even need to perform a soul retrieval ceremony.
I suggest Conscious Lifestyle Magazine's Article for more on what this is and why you may need it.
Cutting energy cords and a soul retrieval can help you to regain all the aspects of yourself that were lost in that relationship over the years so you can be fully present in yourself again.
Fully let go
Many people find that intentionally letting go and resisting the urge to check-in helps.
It allows any wounds to close and gives time for your heart to restore itself fully.
You are bound to this person by only karma, and once you work through the karma by learning the lessons for you, the karmic patterns presented by this person are over, for you, forever.
Meaning, you may never have to go through this experience again. Also meaning, you can set a new pattern with the same person if you so love them, and that same karma will help you both set new cycles in motion.
Also know Source doesn't fault a soul if someone else has chosen to avoid their lessons.
As you resolve the karma for yourself by closing and recognizing the pattern, for you, it has ended for good.
Now for the good part -
The overarching benefits karmic relationships
It strengthens your Heart Chakra and usually opens up the soul to forgiveness, which is the final gateway to alignment, or what is also called enlightenment.
Following the completion of a karmic bond, many people meet their actual true love soulmates, or their existing relationship begins to morph into the relationship of their dream.
Resolving a karmic bond is like the final test of a soul because the point of a karmic relationship is to show us un-integrated karma in ourselves so that we can align with it, and thus, become more fully ourselves.
Thus, through a karmic relationship you open up fully to experiencing yourself and the love you truly deserve.
If you have been through more than one, know you continue to build and take with you all those teachings to be wiser and improve for all incoming and deepening relationships in your life.
Doing the energy work mentioned in this article will help facilitate the soul growth process from this relationship, and help you integrate the wisdom learned on a much quicker and more profound level.
A relationship can teach us so many things about how we value ourselves, and also how others value us and for karmic relationships, sometimes the point is to teach us to step-up our self-love.
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