Updated 2020.11.13
Most mediums will tell you that they can create the clearest channel possible, prepare for your session in the best way they know how and do everything necessary to assure you have the absolute best psychic mediumship reading you can have.
But they’ll also tell you they can’t guarantee that the person you want to connect with will come through in your session.
Which is probably not what you want to hear, considering 99% of all clients book a session with a medium specifically to talk to and hear from just one specific Spirit or guidance area.
We will tell you that we can create the best opportunity for your a Loved One, specific Guide or Angel to come through, but it is they who choose when to come through, for how long, to whom and at what time.
we don’t always choose who comes through
Your Loved Ones, Spirit Guides and Angels choose when they come through, not us. And while some mediums specialize ‘getting that one person,’ most others specialize in delivering to you the best message from the Spirit who wants most to speak with you now.
And sometimes, the person who really wants and needs to talk to you from The Other Side, is not the person you expect.
Here’s why.
sometimes the message you need to hear, is not the message you think you need to hear
Humans are funny beings. When we feel like we need something, sometimes it is really not the thing we need. The thing we need for our own healing and growth may be the exact opposite of what we want it to be.
If you go to a mediumship reading to speak to your best friend and your mother’s friend from long ago comes though - it is perhaps more important for you to hear a message from her, as soon as possible, than perhaps it is to immediately hear from a friend.
Who you hear the messages from matters
Sometimes we need different messengers to accept certain messages.
Spirit decides what is most important and would facilitate the most healing, growth and learning for you at this time, and usually a representative for the team comes forward.
Readings are about bonding, healing relationships and re-connecting with those you love.
In them, often I find that people we didn’t even realize loved us can come through, people from long ago, or friends of friends even. Which is why I say in a reading, be ready for anything.
If you go to a medium to connect with someone on The Other Side, and you have an unhealed relationship with someone else on The Other Side or a message you need to hear only they can deliver, don’t be surprised if this is the Spirit who comes instead.
How do you resolve this?
Go into a reading with an open heart and be willing to hear from anyone on The Other Side who has a message to deliver to you - no matter who it is. It is usually the message you most need to hear now.
why the Spirit chooses their medium
Every single medium on this earth has a slightly different speciality.
Just as not all lawyers specialize in the same kind of style of law, not all mediums specialize in the same kind of mediumship.
While the medium who specializes in Angels could likely bring through your Loved One just as clearly as a one who specializes in representing children in Spirit, it is really the person who will be represented by the medium, who chooses the medium.
If someone were speaking on your behalf and acting as a body double for you, even for just an hour - if it was a really important scene, you would want to select that body double yourself.
You’d want a say in who is going to deliver your message and you may choose someone who specializes in channeling the type of Spirit or guidance you need.
To further improve your chances of having who you want come through when you go to a medium, ask your Loved One, Guide or Angel, to help you choose their preferred body-double, their preferred speaker.
If you are looking for a psychic mediumship reading, the next time you sense your Loved One’s, Guide’s or Angel’s presence, ask them to help you choose a medium for them, and then begin your search.
Allow yourself to look around until you find the one that feels the most ‘right’ to you or the one you feel drawn to.
When you go into a reading with an open heart, choose your medium with your loved one helping to nudge you to find the ‘right’ one, and remain mindful open, you’ll be able to connect with who you want to and need to connect with in any mediumship session.
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